How to Ride a Dildo: Tips to Stay Safe and Have Orgasmic Fun.

So maybe you’ve got yourself a brand – new dildo but don’t have a clue how to operate it. Sex toys can be complicated, and the perennial favorite, the dildo, is no exception. The question is, how do you ride a dildo and get away unscathed?

Riding a dildo can look and feel amazing as long as it’s done right. The truth is, you don’t really need that much to properly ride a dildo. It’s much like riding a stationary penis- you’re in full control of how you want the sex to happen! That said, let’s go over some tips and tricks to truly enjoy your first ride.

What Does Riding a Dildo Mean?

The words ‘riding a dildo’ can mean several different things, but the gist of it is that you’re getting penetrated by the dildo on your own accord.

Strictly speaking, you can call it ‘riding’ if the dildo is stationary and you’re using your legs or hips to work it. In looser terms, any action that has a dildo penetrating your vagina or anus can be called ‘riding a dildo’.

You’re probably all wet and bothered just thinking about getting a taste of your sex toy. But before you begin, here are three tips you should keep in mind.

Before You Start…

Set the Mood

Getting comfortable and receptive to sexual activity is one of the best ways to enjoy a dildo. Unless you’re looking for a fast and furious finish, e.g., a quickie, you should do some things to set the mood. Light up some candles, turn down the lights, and play some music, whichever makes you relaxed and in the mood to play.

Go For Foreplay

Again, unless you’re in for a quickie you should do a bit of self-love before dildo penetration. Let your hands stray to your most sensitive parts and give the erogenous zone a good tease or rub. Close your eyes and think of a fantasy you’ve been wanting to do for the longest time. Once the juices are flowing, then it’s time to do the same to your sex toy.

Lube Up

No dildo should be ridden without a bottle of lube on hand. It’s the golden rule of dildo play for a reason- everything is so much better with a lubed-up dildo!

How to Ride All Kinds of Dildos

Here’s a short yet useful guide on how you can properly ride the most common types of dildos found in sex toy shops.

Realistic Dildos

Realistic dildos assume the shape and size of a real penis, right down to the bulging veins, shaft, and head. Among the dildoes they are the easiest to use. If you have a monstrous dildo (8 inches or longer), then exercise greater caution as it can lead to discomfort if you’re not careful.

Slowly ease in the tip of the realistic dildo as it goes up or towards your vaginal or anal opening. Lube makes it easy to slip in and out.

Suction Dildos

Suction dildos will have suction at the base of the sex toy. Depending on the mechanism or material, this allows the device to stick to the floor or the bathroom wall. Experiment by affixing the dildo first to your desired surface before going in.

Give the dildo a slight pull and see if it’s attached firmly to the wall or floor. Then, slowly back up and ease into it until you get that sweet spot. You can change the angle or your body position for maximum pleasure.

Thrusting Dildos

Thrusting dildos are called such because they move on their own. A special motor pushes the dildo back and forth to give it that rocking motion, and it’s kind of similar to what a guy would do during sex.

With a thrusting dildo, you’ll want to be cautious at first. Pour on a generous amount of lube, then slowly ease your way in. The sex toy can be made to penetrate in different positions, including doggy-style, the cowgirl, or lying on your back.

Vibrating Dildos

Last but not least you have vibrating dildos, which is a type of sex toy that vibrates. Vibrating dildos can assume many forms, including a rabbit vibrator, a clit stimulator, and a simple dildo with vibrate modes. With multi-pronged dildos you’ll want to position the toy so that it hits the intended erogenous zones simultaneously. That said, the best way to ride vibrating dildos is to read the manual and follow instructions to the letter.

The 3 Best Positions for Riding a Dildo

On Your Back

Lying on your back is perhaps the easiest way to ride a dildo. You’re comfortable and in full control, plus your other hand can do something else, such as rub your clit for extra stimulation or fondle your breasts. You can lie flat on the bed or couch, or have a pillow propped up so you can see what you’re doing.

Doggy Style Dildo Riding

Doggy-style dildo riding is best for dildos with suction or thrusting dildos. All you need to do is set the dildo to a proper height, then attach it to a wall or similar surface. Then, back up until you feel the dildo penetrating your vagina or anus. From there, use your hips or legs to go back and forth until you cum.

Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl Position

Technically speaking, the cowgirl position is the ‘correct’ way to ride a dildo. However, you’ll need to be familiar with your dildo before attempting this position. Take a few minutes to experiment with the penetration and control, and work out your leg muscles so you’ll be able to support your weight throughout the session.

Bottom Line – Ride Your Dildo Like a Pro Today!

Now that you know how to ride a dildo properly, you shouldn’t have any problems using the sex toy to attain a higher orgasmic experience. Feel free to experiment and try out other types of dildos to see which one gives you the most pleasure!