So maybe you’ve got yourself a brand – new dildo but don’t have a clue how to operate it. Sex toys can be complicated, and the perennial favorite, the dildo, is no exception. The question is, how do you ride a dildo and get away unscathed?

Riding a dildo can look and feel amazing as long as it’s done right. The truth is, you don’t really need that much to properly ride a dildo. It’s much like riding a stationary penis- you’re in full control of how you want the sex to happen! That said, let’s go over some tips and tricks to truly enjoy your first ride.

What Does Riding a Dildo Mean?

The words ‘riding a dildo’ can mean several different things, but the gist of it is that you’re getting penetrated by the dildo on your own accord.

Strictly speaking, you can call it ‘riding’ if the dildo is stationary and you’re using your legs or hips to work it. In looser terms, any action that has a dildo penetrating your vagina or anus can be called ‘riding a dildo’.

You’re probably all wet and bothered just thinking about getting a taste of your sex toy. But before you begin, here are three tips you should keep in mind.

Before You Start…

Set the Mood

Getting comfortable and receptive to sexual activity is one of the best ways to enjoy a dildo. Unless you’re looking for a fast and furious finish, e.g., a quickie, you should do some things to set the mood. Light up some candles, turn down the lights, and play some music, whichever makes you relaxed and in the mood to play.

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